Homestay and Volunteer
After a night in Bali I began the long trek via bus, ferry and train to Cianjur, Java that wound up taking almost three days, covering 650 miles. On Monday I began the trip via a 5 hour bus ride and short ferry ride to Banyuwangi, Java -- the closest point to Bali in Java. From there I walked to the train station to find out the next train to Surabaya wasn't until 10:15pm, so I had a 7 hour wait there. Unfortunately, there's nothing around the train station so I spent most of the time eating and reading and talking to strangers. I finally boarded the train for what was a 9 hour overnight ride. The train wasn't that comfortable so sleeping was pretty tough. All in all I probably got about 2-3 hours of rest. Once in Surabaya I had an 1.5 layover where I grabbed some breakfast before my next 12 hour train ride to Bandung. This ride was much better as the train was real comfortable (just as good as the Amtrak back home). I was able to sleep a bit on this ride, but also read a ton and enjoyed the beautiful scenery. I arrived in Bandung at 7:30pm where I found a hostel by the train station, grabbed some dinner and went to sleep early. I was up early again the next day for the last leg of the trip to Cianjur: a two hour bus ride. The ride was pretty smooth and on Wednesday afternoon I finally arrived at Yudi's house in Cianjur.
I heard from a few people while traveling about this homestay and volunteer program and I figured it would be a great way to spend my last few days in Indonesia and how right I was. Yudi's home is a small, three bedroom house in a little neighborhood of Cianjur which is a medium sized Muslim town about four hours drive from Jakarta. Yudi's family of four lives here and his Nephew spends a lot of time here as well. The food has been absolutely amazing too. My first meal here was this amazing gado-gado, rice, vegetables and soup for dinner (I've eaten more here than anywhere else). In the morning I woke up to a delicious breakfast, including sweet grilled rice and a popular local dish called bugis. It's a cake with fried brown sugar and roasted coconut in the middle, surrounded by a sticky rice made with mashed suji leaf that gives it a natural green coloring. It's probably the best sweet I've had in SE Asia. After breakfast I went to one of the local Muslim high schools where I spent most of the day going from class to class talking to all the students so they could practice their English. They all asked me hundreds of questions about America, why I came to Indonesia, American traditions, popular music, if I have a girlfriend, etc.
After 5 hours there, and a delicious lunch of
Lontong (peanut sauce based curry with vegetables and chicken), I went to a local tea plantation to see the entire process of how tea is made. The best part was probably just walking through the lush hills where in every direction all you could see were tea trees. I was there with one of the locals who work for Yudi, Jamal who is one of the most fun and crazy (in a good way) persons I've met along my journey. We got along really well and pretty much spent the afternoon laughing about the most random things (for example he wants to marry a foreigner born on July 24 (his bday), get married on July 24 and have twins born on July 24). At night I met up with the teacher and some students from the school I previously visited for dinner and hanging out for hours just talking about anything and everything and having a great time. Later, Jamal and I went into town to check it out and get myself oriented.
The next morning I was up at 7:30 to go to another school. This time it was a Hotel Administration College, and I met with four different classes of approximately 30 students each. Again, I was asked many similar questions as the day before and of course, had about 100 photos taken of me with each of the students. Both schools were definitely happy to have a foreigner come visit their school, as there really aren't any tourists here (thus far I haven't seen any others which is really nice)! It was really a fantastic time going to the schools as I enjoyed being there and it was very obvious the teachers and students did too (anytime I was walking somewhere I had at least 10 people following me). I got back to Yudi's house around 4 and relaxed the rest of the day and night.
Saturday was a nice laid back day, as I think the lack of sleep finally caught up to me and hit me like a brick wall as I was extremely extremely tired. Yudi, Jamal and I just hung around the house and the neighborhood all day which was really nice and something I haven't been able to do once on this trip. It felt like I was living there.
Sunday was more or less my last "real" day in SE Asia (I say real b/c Monday I am traveling 5 hours to Jakarta then flying out on Tuesday) so I wanted to make sure I had a full day of doing something unique to here. Jamal graciously offered to take me to his village which I was really excited about. His village was a 20 minute motorbike ride from Yudi's and of course through vast expanses of rice fields. Upon arriving at his sister's house, I was instantly surrounded by about 10 kids and numerous other screams of "bule" or foreigner in Indonesian. After meeting his sister and his nephew, we walked over to his mother's house where Jamal introduced me to his mom. From there we walked out to the rice fields for some photos and what turned out to be some unexpected manual labor! Four women were working in the rice fields and Jamal asked if I wanted to try. I thought why the hell not, took off my sandals and with the women's approval stepped knee deep into the mud and water. Because it's the beginning of the rainy season most of the rice isn't ready to be harvested and thus is growing in deep water. The work basically consisted of tilling the mud and pulling out weeds with my bare hands -- no machines here. I was extremely impressed as the women I was working next to were at least 60 years old and were day after day working the fields in the heat. I was given the approval by the ladies who said in Sundanese (the local dialect), I would make a great rice farmer -- perhaps a future for me if I can't find other work. I lasted about an hour, or 3 full rice paddies of work, before I began to feel the heat and was finished. I guess I was so caught up in the work that I hadn't noticed the group of villagers who had been watching (and laughing) the entire time! This was certainly a great experience, let alone the amazing views and definitely something I will never forget. Nor will the four ladies I worked with, as they said they have never seen a foreigner in person before, let alone a foreigner working a rice paddy!
After the hard work I was fortunate enough to have a local boy climb a nearby palm tree for me and grab a few fresh coconuts right from the tree for a refreshing drink and snack. Jamal, me and the group of about 10 local boys now following us made our way back into the village to walk around and meet some more people. Everywhere we went people were coming out of their houses to check out the foreigner. Jamal and I were invited into people's homes and offered tea and cookies and who knows what else to snack on that we of course could not refuse. At times I thought maybe I shouldn't eat or drink this or that b/c I had no idea what it was, but I thought hey what the hell I only have a few more days in SE Asia, I may as well go for it! Each house we stopped at presented a new learning experience, 100's of photos from the home owners, numerous marriage proposals and overall amazement at this foreigner in their village. The funniest was either when one pregnant woman said she hopes to have a baby that looks like me, implying that we marry or two women stating that they were extremely jealous of my big nose. Many people tried to guess where I was from, always incorrectly, ranging from India, Pakistan and to Iran (generally b/c of the nose). Throughout our stopovers I learned and saw how tamarind snacks were made, how pure brown sugar is grown and how to effectively grow peanuts and green beans. At around 1:30 we stopped into Jamal's sister's house for lunch of ladak (vegetables with peanut sauce) and I was taught how to make my own peanut sauce which I'm pumped up about. Essentially you just crush peanuts, salt, potato and chili together and add a bit of water. Following lunch we made a few more rounds to other houses and to his friends which was a lot of fun. All in all we spent 7 hours at Jamal's village, which turned out to be one of the best days I've had all trip long.
Cianjur is 100% Muslim and everyone I met here were the friendliest, most welcoming and most accepting people I've probably ever met. I was offered, and accepted, more tea and food than imaginable and the doors to these people's homes were immediately opened for me, even as a perfect stranger (which has been true in most parts of SE Asia). When asked where I was from and when I told them I was American they were grateful to have me in their homes. I will never forget this hospitality and hope that someday I can return the warmth and acceptance in some form or another.
We finally got back to Yudi's home around 5pm where shortly thereafter I had yet another delicious dinner of sate ayam and vegetables. I have to say that as my last "real" day I could not have imagined a single better way to spend it.
On Monday I'm driving with Yudi to Jakarta and on Tuesday flying back to SF.
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Yudi and his family |
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The living room |
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SMA Negeri 1 School |
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Hotel Administration College |
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Tea factory |
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Jamal and I at the tea plantation |
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Bugis!!! |
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The lady to in all blue wanted the baby that looked like me |
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Hard at work! |
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A bit muddy |
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Nice background! |
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Break time |
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Nothing like a fresh coconut after some hard work |
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They followed me throughout the day |
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The women in red wanted a nose like mine
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